Hi All,
"Dont be a Duck,Be an Eagle. Ducks quack and complain, Eagles soar above the crowd".From the very title it is clear that we going to discuss about why do people complain and how can we get rid of it.
We generally complain bacause we are not satisfied with ourselves.Complaining has become a habit among all of us.We complain about every little things.E.g.,my cell phone is not working,i did not get my increment in salary as expected and the list goes on.
Most of us feel that it is our right to complain about everything.Most of us think that we are perfect and so everything should happen as we want it to happen.But,thats wrong.No one is perfect and thats why we all strive to improve ourselves everyday.
If we donot complain on small things and try to find solutions of the problems our Circle of Influence increases.
However,there are few ways by which we can stop complaining:
1)Make a note of the complaints that you make everyday.At the end of the day,you will be amazed by the list of complaints.
2)Start speaking positive.Try to notice positive points in everything that you come across.This will reduce your negativity and will help you stop complaining.
3)Stay away from people who are born to complain.It is very easy to pick up wrong habits and so if you stay around people who speak negative,you will also start complaining about evrything after a period of time.
4)Try to help others.By doing so you will stay away from negativity and heling others will help you feel good about yourself.
It is very easy to complain.But complaining will not resolve the problem.If something is bothering you,find out the reason and try to resolve it.STOP COMPLAINING and live a positive life.
Regards,
Kavita
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